Abigail's most recent adventure began at her 3-year-old check-up back in November. She didn't pass her hearing test. The doctor wasn't too concerned-- she had fluid in her ears but it could just be from being sick. So we waited, and tested her again in a few months. She failed again. Still fluid there. So she was referred to an ear, nose & throat specialist.
For as long as I can remember, Abi has had allergy issues, stuffy nose, etc. and snores like a grown man! She hasn't really had ear infections, but I have always noticed her having trouble hearing and asking me to repeat myself more than once. I have also always noticed she doesn't speak as clearly as Leah or Andrew did at her age. And once we saw that specialist, I started to see the connection between all these things. The specialist said he'd like to put tubes in her ears and also get her adenoids removed. The adenoids, which apparently serve the same type purpose as your tonsils and are also not completely necessary, can block the nasal passage, and when the fluids in your nose have nowhere to go, they go up into the ears. So that is what caused the fluid in her ears.
So this past Friday we experienced our first surgery. I told myself I wasn't too worried. This doctor has done this surgery hundreds of times. It's relatively safe. Still, on the morning of, I was a little scared for her. She is so small and seemed even smaller once she got that hospital gown on. She had to fast that morning so none of us ate breakfast (we had to be there at 7:15 anyway so we didn't really have time!). I went to the pre-op with her by myself while Brett stayed in the lobby with the other kids.

It didn't take long to get her ready, and thankfully it was pretty busy the whole time so we didn't have much down time to worry. I don't think she really knew much of what was going on. We really just told her the doctor was going to give her a special medicine that made her go to sleep and when she woke up she would be able to hear better and breathe better. She was completely silent the whole time the dr.'s and nurses were asking questions. She didn't open her mouth even for the anesthesiologist to check her throat. She barely even spoke to me when they were not in the room. She just wanted me to be there with her. And I tried to make her laugh with my silly hat and booties.

I walked her to the operating room and held her while they put the mask on her to put her to sleep. This was the scariest part for me and I tried to be tough for her, but the big white room with all the huge equipment and 7 or 8 nurses and doctors hustling around was really intimidating. I had never experienced that before and to see the tiny little bed right in the middle of it all made me want to turn around with her and run out. But she did just fine, although it seemed to take forever for her to fall asleep. And then I went out to the waiting room. It took them maybe 30-40 minutes for the procedure. The dr. came out and told us all went well. Her adenoids were indeed huge and she should be done with all of this mess now.
All of us were able to go back with her into recovery. She was pretty upset and crying uncontrollably as she woke up, but she was attached to an i.v. and in a strange place, so it was understandable. I was able to sit with her but not hold her and she wasn't too happy about that. They wanted to keep her about an hour or so, because apparently they had to give her a larger than normal dose of the anesthesia (stubborn, maybe?), but she was coming out just fine. Leah was almost more upset than I was to see her sister so sad and in pain. She was crying for her. Still, the other kids were so patient as they waited (and I had forgotten to bring them anything to do!) and even Jacob didn't fuss much. We were able to go home around 10:30, after making a stop for ice cream, popsicles, and Jell-o, which everyone enjoyed once Abi woke up from her nap back at home!
After sleeping a few hours, she seemed to be back to her normal self. Even today, two days later, she still says she has a sore throat (they had to give her a breathing tube during the surgery which can irritate the throat) and complains her ears are hurting. Several times she has complained that things are loud, when really they're normal volume. She doesn't want to eat much (which really isn't unusual for her, anyway) and she has slept a little more than usual, but she is still playful and acting normally. We haven't noticed huge changes yet, but I think soon we will notice her breathing through her nose instead of her mouth, and notice better hearing. I am glad it is all done with!